How to reply to a fundraising request email
Updated November 12, 2026
You can give, give a smaller amount, or decline, and each is fine. Thank them for asking, answer clearly, and if you can't give, you might offer to share their message. Before donating, check the cause is real and the link or details look right. Reply within a week if the sender is a person you know.
- Reply
- Within a week. If a friend or group is organizing, they'll appreciate knowing where you stand, and some campaigns end on a set date.
What your reply should say
- Thank them for telling you about the cause, using their name or the group's.
- Say clearly what you'll do: give, give less, or not this time.
- If you're giving, say how and mention it in a friendly way.
- Offer another form of help if you want to, like sharing the link.
3 replies you can copy
Pick the one that matches what you want to say, copy it, and change everything in [brackets].
1Donate
You want to give and will do it now.
Hi [Name], Thank you for letting me know about [cause]. It sounds like important work, and I'm happy to support it. I've donated $[amount] through [the link you sent / their official page]. Good luck reaching your goal. I hope the other donations come in quickly. Please let me know where to send it if there is another way. Best, [Your name]
2Share instead of giving
You can't give money but still want to help.
Hi [Name], Thank you for telling me about [cause]. I can't contribute financially right now, but I'd like to help get the word out. I'll share your link with [friends / my team / social media]. Is there a short message you'd like me to use? I think your cause deserves a wider audience, and sharing costs me nothing. Best, [Your name]
3Kindly decline
You prefer not to give or already support other causes.
Hi [Name], Thank you for thinking of me and for the work you're doing for [cause]. I'm not able to contribute this time. I wish you every success with the effort, and I hope you reach your goal. I hope the response from others is generous. Thank you for understanding. Best, [Your name]
Already late? Send this instead
For when you are a week late or more. Own the delay in one line, then do the job.
Hi [Name], Thank you for your message about [cause], and sorry I didn't answer sooner. [I've made a donation of $X / I can't give right now, but I wish you the best / I'd like to share it.] I hope the fundraiser goes well. Best, [Your name]
Mistakes to avoid
- Clicking a donation link in an email you didn't expect. Go to the organization's real site instead.
- Giving because you feel pushed, then feeling resentful.
- Sharing your bank or card details by email.
- Ignoring a friend's request completely, when a short kind no would do.
- Promising to give later and then not doing it.
Questions people ask
How can I tell if a fundraising email is legitimate?
Be careful with unknown senders or urgent pressure. Go to the organization's website by typing it yourself instead of using the link in the email. Ask a friend you trust. When unsure, don't donate through the email. Look for a clear name, a real contact and a donation page on a site you recognize. Never send card details by email.
Is it rude to decline?
No. A short, kind no is fine, and you don't need to explain. Thank them and wish them well. If you want to help in a small way, sharing the link is a gift in itself. People get many requests each year and nobody can say yes to all of them. A kind reply is enough.
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How this page was made
Written by Westward, who make Orbit, as starting points you edit before sending. The replies use placeholders, not real people or real mail. Nothing here is legal, tax or medical advice; for contracts, money or health, check the document or ask a professional. All reply guides.